Introducing: My fiance!

Okay, this is Char again. My fiance has limited use of technology at the moment, so he's asked me to post for him, introducing him and his own issues.

His problems are pretty serious, probably moreso than my own.

Let's see. Firstly, he's incontinent. But that's okay, it just means he has to pay extra in order to get diapers.

Secondly, he may have DID. Aka, multiple personalities. I'll talk about these in a bit.

Thirdly, he has a bitch of a mother. She's abusive, bigoted, and pretty much just a waste of life. And up until recently, he's been living with her. Which brings me to my next point.

Finally, ever since the weekend he's been officially homeless, and living in a homeless shelter.

You know what's funny about that last point? As far as I can tell (and I'm not exactly sure about this because I'm not in the situation itself), he seems better off at the shelter than with his mother. With his mother, it was hard to tell if she was going to do something. And if she did, then he'd get really upset. I truly hate her for that.

But he told me that the people at the shelter seem like really nice people who just fell on hard times, like himself. And while he hasn't seemed to be the happiest in the world, he seems happier than what he was with his mother. So that's a good thing, right?

Also, they're helping him. Putting him into classes, or trying to get him disability payments. Trying to help him get on his feet. Which is more than his mother ever did for him (which consisted of a bunch of bitching and... well... as far as I know, that's about it).

Continuing, I'll go back to the multiple personalities.

He has a system of personalities within himself. They started off few and weak, but now they're more and stronger. So far, there is:

A mischeivous 3 year old boy
An ex-SAS member
A 6 year old girl who's about as much of a nerd as I am (and I love it :P)
An emotionally withdrawn 10 year old boy.

And that's about it. They don't seem to be harmful, and of course, he seems to, for the most part, have control of it.

Theoretically, part of this could be due to the abuse he suffered from his mother, as these days, the ex-SAS member fronts whenever she abuses him. So really, there's a good chance that this is all her fault. Or maybe he would've had the condition anyway and he just uses it in that way to avoid his mother being bitchy at him. Either way...

I'm not sure what else there is to say. I'm sure if he wants to say something more, he'll tell me or blog here himself one day. So until next time, I guess.